Monday, January 30, 2006

Random web site to check out: List of neologisms on The Simpsons

So this weekend was interesting. Saturday I actually got up at a reasonable hour (perhaps even early for a weekend) and went to a few different Sabbath morning activities. Of particular interest was a presentation by my Chemistry lecturer Dr. Rittenhouse. He talked about his trip this past summer to Peru as part of a small mountaineering group. Rittenhouse has amazing talent at public speaking - very soft, methodical, precise, and well executed. Not full of emotional phrases or vast hand-waving gestures. And yet I couldn't help but be inspired by his passion for mountaineering.

The whole idea of taking yourself away from the routines of life and pouring your energy, focus, and soul into a single purpose - climbing a mountain - seems like a very soul enriching activity... The trust and companionship made with fellow climbers is uncommon in relationships... The beauty of the vast earth we live on - clear and untainted when viewed from the highest altitudes where humans haven't yet made an ugly mark... He showed us incredible things. The photos were nice, but it was his descriptions and depth in his voice that made it clear how powerful the experience really was.

So I want to go climb mountains in Peru some day. Before that, I will need to build up years of experience climbing other mountains, but it seems a worthwhile pursuit.

Also of interest. I just finished reading "My Mentor" by Alec Wilkinson. It is required reading for my Honours College Writing, but I really found myself sinking into the book - something I haven't done in ages. I've also started writing in the margins and underlining - activities I always dreaded and despised - and I've actually found that they let me engage the contents of the book on a whole new level. It also makes finding those meaningful quotes a lot easier to find when flipping through the book ;)

The book describes the mentorship that Wilkinson experienced under William Maxwell - one of the greatest editors and novelists of the 20th century. A great many quotes and ideas stand out and I will try to remember to sprinkle them throughout future posts whether they really fit the subject or not. For starters:

"It is hard to be an original person, an individual. No one cares for it, really. Very few people will congratulate you on the accomplishment. At close hand a truly original person is almost always disturbing. Indulgent and self-consciously outrageous behavior, show business boy and girl behavior - attitudes and mannerisms summoned in the attempt to bring notice to a negligible personality - is not the same as being original, because it is necessarily in response to something. A reaction to someone else's point of view...." - p 44

"He was fond of a remark by the critic John Hall Wheelock that writing involves the imposition of a line of words on a line of feeling." - p 99

11 comments:

Sweet Onion said...

I'm actually starting to like sitting in on the Senate fiscal committee (Ways & Means) because I brought my laptop today... so I can listen with one ear and surf the net at the same time!

I wonder if there are any original people out there. Granted, my brain has been opened up to new ideas that seem original--for my family, me saying that Wal-Mart is evil (which it is) is original thinking, but here with a bunch of Democrats and Wal-Mart haters, its very much NOT original. To my family, I might be "out of the box" but to my good close friends, I am definitely in with them in our own "box."

I had to read that "original" quote several times, and I still don't fully grasp the smaller context of it--but it makes sense. I don't mind original people per se, but those who are militant about sticking out and pushing their agenda or trying to gain attention, I personally find annoying.

But it is hard b eing an individual. Especially in our non-individualistic society. Take for instance, your weird fond glee found in wearing your pajamas all day long. WEIRDNESS! But bad? Nope. Interesting. Its like the guy down at Berkley who decided to go naked to all his classes. His classmates said it was distracting (boy, and wouldn't it be!) but he claimed he had a right in his individuality to dress the way he wanted to. All he had on was his backpack :) I can't imagine sitting behind him, him sitting in a desk chair... ****shiver*** wowie.

Sometimes being in a cultural community is a good thing, and individuality could be bad--what do you think? I guess if you are that way, thats fine, but if you have to go out of your way to become "individualistic" it seems rhetorical and redunant and fake.

But I guess I don't have to go on and on about this topic. I found that quote interesting. Any others you find, please do share! It was interesting!

Ok, I read it for the third time. Now i get it. And it is saying everything I was trying to say in the above statements, but it said it more succinctly than I could! Very true, very true.

Trying to gain attention through being "individualistic" "is not the same as being original, because it is necessarily in response to something. A reaction to someone else's point of view...." Yup. Ciao don Juan.

Brandon said...

Yeah I really like it - the idea of distinguishing between attention seeking publicity stunts under the guise of being original vs. true originality that doesn't seek the spotlight.

I have to keep checking the motives behind my actions and make sure that I'm being weird because it is me and not because being weird draws attention.

Big difference that isn't obvious at first glance.

The rest of the quote is (please pardon any typos I made):

"Someone's standards have to be outraged, and once you figure out what they consist of it's simple to come up with a means of insulting them. It's a tactic for drawing notice, of not being overlooked, and the pople who engage in it generally have little of what is required to hold one's attention once they have it. Anyone who is truly original is likely to be taunted, made fun of, his point of view being so divergent from the ordinary, the accepted. An easy mark for torment. He is likely to be to one side or the other of your awareness, not directly in front of anyone's gaze, unless he wasn't able to move out of the way quickly enough. His appearance probably does not matter much to him. His mind is too preoccupied to care about his clothes or whether his haircut is fashionable. He is not likely to care for having people know too much about him, preferring to operate as a subversive. His intentions surely undermine those of the common grain. They don't embrace the rule, the popular or the conventional, and he only feels the restraints such considerations impose."

Brandon said...

By the way, I do remember hearing about this guy who went to class nude. Apparently, they college finally was able to do something about it when two female classmates acused him of "sexual harrasment" (even though he didn't DO anything).

Individuality is never a "bad" thing if it is true individuality. Deviance from social convention just to break rules can definately be bad. I think...

Sweet Onion said...

I liked that quote you posted!!! So true. I'd have to take myself out of that subvursive original category... I'm not so very original after all from a smaller sub-group of people. I'm very original in my family though! But thats about as far as it goes.

Hey, I talked to my ex for about 1.5 hours last night. No hard feelings, just discussing politics and arguing in good humor. It was amazing! And today I wish I hadn't of talked to him just because he doesn't deserve to know what I'm doing with my life when he knocked me hard :) but I think it shows a good improvement in me: I can be friends with him if I wanted to without harboring anger, pain, despair, etc. like I used to. I guess its just nice to measure my growth and see that "yah! I'm doing well! Right-ho!"

I don't plan on making it a habit to talk to him, because it just wouldn't be good for either of us, especially ME. but it was good to see my personal growth.

WHOA. He just emailed me. He said:

"And on another note, it was an interesting conversation last night. I'm proud of you for actually debating something and having reasoned opinions and defenses for them, which is a little different than you used to be. Kinda reactive and all, you know. While I didn't quite agree with your opinions in a few ways, they certainly weren't flawed or "wrong" in any way. It's funny that you're a coffee-drinking political intern now. Good job. Too bad you weren't an atheist yet. I think we might both enjoy each other more now. Not to bring any ancient history up, I'm just glad you're going the way you are and I've changed a bit too."

THat was a nice email from him! Quite surprising actually, but we did have a good talk! I can guarantee I wouldn't enjoy his company--he hasn't really changed, and wowie, you'd just have to know him. But I'm pretty much not going to be talking to him again for many reasons but like I said above his email to me. Personal growth. Good feeling.

Anyway. When are you going to get online? :) I have friends here, but nothing like I had in Walla Walla with Charis or Janelle. I like Sophia, but I'm in hiding just in case she reads my blog :) because she drives me nuts a lot of the time. But I'm trying to keep positive about her behavior instead of negative and bad. I have a phobia of calling people :) so I'm pretty much feeling lonely at times out here... Charis said she's coming to visit some weekend soon with Boris! I'm so excited about that. Which is why I'm posting so much on your blog right now :) hopefully I don't crash the system with the huge size of this :) :).

Anyway, I need to push off, so I'll catch you later.

Brandon said...

Hey Jen, I'm almost always on IM. Sure you got the right tag? I still haven't seen you online yet... Message me ANY time - particularly when you are feeling isolated or other friends are driving you nuts!

Good to hear that you are on better terms with him - seeing your own personal growth is a very encouraging thing indeed. From what I know of you, it's hard to imagine you being "reactive and all".

You've chosen the same route as another great friend of mine - to not hate him, but not really talk to him or try to get into a relationship with him again either. I seems like a wise move to me *nods head*.

Miss ya and it's great to know you've got some visitors coming up soon :) Talk to you on IM soon I hope!

Sweet Onion said...

I did add you to my messenger list... and i have been on three times today and never saw you. Its tuesday, Jan. 31, 10:05 pm so if you're on, it means you haven't added me and therefore cannot see me and ditto on my end. I'll send you an email to your yahoo account and then you add me.

But yes, what the ex said about me was true! Plus a lot of other things he could say but didn't... but thats why I'm on the warpath to change ME!!!! But whatever I was, it never warranted what happened between us.

So I have decided to dig through the crap in my life now, whereas everyone else waits until their own crisis hits! My crisis inspired me to change from the inside out. It was the only thing that could knock me hard enough to make me realize what a bastard I was, how self-centered and egotistic, how stupid, childish, immature, blah blah blah I was. I think God put a blazin' heat on me to make me change! It was rough but here I am. A different person. I died, was reborn, and now I feel like a child experiencing life for the first time, except I now view myself as an adult, no longer a little girl. Ahhhh. Its a good feeling at times. But then I miss those innocent days.... ;)

You know, the best revenge is a life well lived. Who ever penned that was damn smart. It was probably Shakespear, the damn genius. I have to say, I know I'm making the ex jealous! And guess what!!!!! The little devil in me smiles at it!!!! But in more of a happy way than negative, because it means I'm doing much better inside than ever before.

Okie dokie. Gotta shove off to bed. I'm turning into an old woman! I turn into a pumpkin by 10:30 because I'm usually in bed by 9:30! I watched the movie, "THe Legend of Bagger Vance" and it was awesome. Just finished that. Oh, and cleaning the kitchen. So I had to check email. I'm obessive compulsive about email and the web. :)

~Jen

Brandon said...

I suppose it does make a lot of sense to work through "crap" while life is going ok instead of waiting for some terrible calamity to hit.

Death and rebirth - that sounds like a marvelous change! I wonder if I'll ever get to a point like that...

What you are describing about making your ex jealous sounds like "vindication"? (thanks Michelle for introducing that to my vocab)

Great chatting with you - even you did turn into a pun'kin ... :)

Unknown said...

No prob Brandon!! Vindication is a awesome word--more subtle then revenage, and different from revenage in that it's for yourself, not necessarily aimed at anyone else. It just makes you feel great when a particular person sees how much you've grown and/or moved on.

You can even feel vindicated with people who are your friends interestingly enough. Particularly when you break away from the box your friends stick you in and show your true worth.

Sweet Onion said...

Dude Michelle, that is so very true! It is weird how the right use of a word can make a big huge difference. Vindication versus Revenge. I feel vindicated in my life, and its a sweet feeling.

Sweet Onion said...

p.s. hi michelle! You must be.... the delovely gal who is thinking about heading Washington State direction to attend nursing school at the Community College! I have heard from so many friends that the CC has one of the best nursing programs. Plus, if you get in state tuition... it would save you tons of money! Not to mention Brandon is out here, WWC is such a cool stomping ground to meet cool people and hang out with cool groups (cough cough, Amnesty, cough cough) who eat cool food by cool cooks (cough cough, Janelle, cough cough). the Walla Walla Valley is a small town feeling but with large city cultural attractions. Hope you can come!

Brandon said...

:P Hehe thanks for the promo Jen! It would indeed be awsome to have you out here, Michelle - but no pressure. Really. Find what's best for you!

I hope everyone out there is having a great weekend. I was going to post some new material, but need to finish some homework first...